An email, from a chronologically advantaged person like me, was all about the weird life we are experiencing these days. Here is the comment she made:
“I have never experienced so much silence. So few visits with friends. It just seems so lonely.”
As I read her words it occurred that we are all, by our very nature, created to be in relationship. It began way back, in the beginning, when God made someone for Adam to share his life with.
In the Gospels it is clear that Jesus needed companions to share his ministry. When they were prepared to go out and gather more folks into the kingdom; Jesus sent them out two by two — not one traveling alone.
The Gospels are replete with examples of how we need each other to function in healthy ways. Taking care of our neighbors — even if we don’t know them.
But today we are asked to stay in our own safe homes; excluding family and friends in the name of fear. Fear of being exposed, or exposing others, to this crazy virus.
It is effecting not only private relationships; it also includes all activities such as sports events, funerals, wedding and other group function.
In many ways it is “an all for yourself” culture.
The writer, of the email I quoted, expresses a very common problem — exclusion.
So now I am going to take a huge — big, big — risk here: Jesus ministry was all about inclusion.
He didn’t follow the purity ritual.
He didn’t think twice about helping someone who was labeled “unclean.”
He resisted the Pharisees complaint about the disciples not washing their hands.
Or eating unlawful food.
Or helping a person on the road beaten, robbed and left for dead.
Or entering the house of a Gentile, a person deemed unclean, and eating with them.
Jesus’ mission was to gather the “clean" and “unclean,” “worthy” of “unworthy" into one circle. Crossing all kinds of boundaries that limited relationship.
How many times did Jesus tell his followers: “Don’t be afraid?”
Jesus didn’t allow fear to rule his active living.
Another big jump: throughout history those who wanted power and control used fear to keep people in line. I can’t help but wonder if there is some of that activity going on in the United States today.
Call me crazy.
Yet, it is an honest wonder.